The Link Between Perfectionism and Obsession in Workaholism Workaholism is not just about working excessively; it is an obsession that stems from perfectionism. Understanding this inner dynamic is crucial to grasp how workaholism leads to narcissism. In this post, we will explore how obsession plays a pivotal role in workaholism and its psychological consequences. The[…]
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Why Shame Can Both Help and Hurt Self-Control Shame is often discussed as a motivator for self-control, especially in situations like managing weight or resisting unhealthy habits. But is shame truly the key to changing behavior? Research suggests that the real drivers are emotions we anticipate, such as pride, regret, or remorse, which subtly shape[…]
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Anxiety can feel overwhelming and isolating, but there are natural ways to manage it effectively without relying on medication. Here are five practical tips to help you reduce anxiety, improve your well-being, and regain control of your life. 1. Find a Support Group (Online or In-Person) Connecting with others who understand your struggles can make[…]
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How Eating Well Can Increase Performance & Happiness What turns a healthy dedication to exercise into an unhealthy obsession? And how can this transition be reversed to restore health and happiness? These questions were thoughtfully explored by personal trainer Gillian Mounsey in her experience at the Wichita Falls Athletic Club, under the guidance of Mark[…]
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Personality disorders are characterized by enduring patterns of problematic behavior that typically begin in adolescence, causing significant distress and functional impairment. These disorders are often perceived as lifelong conditions, but recent research suggests that symptoms can improve or even remit over time. Does this mean personality disorders disappear entirely? The answer is both yes and[…]
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How to Discern Which Attractions Lead to Pain & Which Can Lead to Real Love If I could only share one insight with my single readers, it would be this: Learn to distinguish between your “attractions of deprivation” and your “attractions of inspiration.” Then, only follow your attractions of inspiration. I believe that’s the wisest path to[…]
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In today’s fast-paced, capitalistic world, the pursuit of wealth is often mistakenly equated with the pursuit of happiness. The more money people earn and the more possessions they accumulate, the closer they believe they are to achieving happiness. But is this belief true? Not quite. Why Material Wealth Falls Short Research shows that chasing happiness[…]
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Intelligent People Are More Likely to Do Stupid Things Not only are more intelligent individuals more likely to consume more alcohol more frequently, but they are also more likely to engage in binge drinking and to get drunk. In an earlier post, I show that consistent with the prediction of the Hypothesis, more intelligent individuals consume larger quantities of alcohol[…]
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Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Research on Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) identifies five key factors that can negatively impact a child’s mental and physical health in the long term. Studies suggest that many adults with significant challenges faced at least two of these adverse events during childhood. Five Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs): Physical Abuse Physical[…]
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Creativity Can Thrive Without Alcohol & Drugs My entire life I grew up around creative people. Indeed, my godfather was John Birks “Dizzy” Gillespie and my godmother was the wife of legendary saxophone player Stan Getz. I was so close to both of these men since I was practically born and when they died I[…]